MERCY AND LOVINGKINDNESS

 HE'S GREATLY APPRECIATED!

LISTEN, CHILDREN...

AND THOSE KIDS ARE IN THEIR 

LATE 20S OR EARLY 30S NOW...

AND I TRULY HOPE THEY ARE SERVING OUR LORD, 

THEIR SPIRITUAL FATHER.

[AND NOW THEY MIGHT BE TEACHING THEIR OWN KIDS... 

AND THINKING ABOUT THAT FILLS ME WITH JOY.]

 

EVERLASTING STRENGTH

EVERYTHING SHOULD TRUST THE LORD.

THE ONLY WAY WE CAN EVERY MAKE IT IN THIS WORLD.

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TELL THE WORLD..

YES, SING HIS NAME.

SHARE IT,

OVER AND OVER AND OVER,

AROUND THE WORLD!

OUR GOD THE ROCK

DAD'S GOODNESS

 As described so many times in my stories, Dad was hard to live with.  Mostly a result of his alcoholism and toughness with jobs.  The result of having to move quite a number of times, because our family didn't fit into the social groups, my sisters and I were often filled with fear and anger and piles and piles of frustration. 

Until I was about 5, I don't recall any serious difficulty.   But just as I was turning 5, life changed.  Big Time!!

Graduated when 60 years old.

 Here's some of Dad's history that explains how he got turned around the wrong way.  One of my dad's tough issues, as was the case of many people, he wasn't able to finish school.  During the Great Depression's stretch of time for several years, he had to work, pull in whatever he could for food, etc., and ended school at 8th grade. 




He liked to read, but it wasn't what he should have read to grow stronger. Dad also was on the train with a cousin as hobos hopping on freight trains.  As a teen, he was going back and forth between Portland and Tacoma area, working sometimes, stealing sometimes.  Then, when WWII was hitting him, his life changed again, both for good or evil.

I remember a couple things that were heart-filling.  For me.  As I said, he wasn't always mean, but sure struggled.  I remember one of his jobs as a taxi driver.  He came home one night, stabbed.  The rider had refused to pay and knifed him.  He was able to get his arm fixed up, but he started taking a blackjack in his taxi so he could whack when threatened.  Then, his other jobs were connected to construction and lumbering.  He'd do really well for a while, and then the drunkness would kick in, and he'd lose the jobs.

When in Tacoma when he was sober, out of work, dealing with daughters, babysitting at home [Mom was working], and taking care of the house, he did a good job.  One of the things that always makes me smile is what the stressfulness of washing clothes reality was like back then.  Remember?    Got clothes washed either in a machine or in a tub.  Always hung them outside to dry... or inside when the freezing or raining was hitting them.  In those days, also, girls wore dresses to school...usually cotton.  Everything needed to be ironed.  Dad ironed piles of the dresses for the girls when he was home.  Men rarely did those things in those years.  So Dad was a blessing in this instance.

I have a very blessed moment in time, also.  At the end of my 5th grade year, with my report card when school ended. I was filled with rejoicing, because I had straight-A's that time.
When Dad was coming home from a job, climbing up the stairs from the street to the yard, and I ran out and hollered about it, my Dad knelt down, threw his arms around me, gave me a kiss and was teary.  He was so happy for me, and it filled his heart with joy.

Yes, life was usually filled with toughness from my parents.  Occasionally, they did very good and kind things for me and my sisters, usually when they had left the alcohol, stopped hanging out at bars, and were working consistently.  But, for some reason, they both began hitting the bars again, and danger began again for them and many others.

But, when I think of Dad, I DO remember the ironing he did and the gratefulness he had when I had straight-A's the first time.

As I often say, I'm truly looking forward to seeing Dad in heaven, because he no longer has the painfulness -- in his spirit, soul, and body -- since he had been a young kid.  1) He had serious heart issues, mostly because his mom had the 1918 Flu when pregnant with him.  2) As a young boy was threatened to be murdered by a step-dad.  3)  Poverty stricken, and then having to deal with serious situations during the Great Depression and WWII.  

But the Lord broke through his life a number of times, protecting him, drawing him to Himself, and Dad finally turned to the Lord, thoroughly. 

I had rarely seen my Dad after I was 23, when I, married, had moved to California.  Heard from him every year or so, and that was it.  When I was 32, when I lived in Omaha, that's when he called to tell me about his salvation, and then sent me a wonderful letter.

And I'm so looking forward to being with him in heaven.  After all these years, I can be with him as his "little girl".  What a treat that will be.

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I'm sorry this doesn't move logically, systematically...but it wasn't easy to organize.  But sharing my Dad was very important.  Shared Mom last week and this was laid on me by the Lord. 

RUN AND LEAP, DAD

MY DAD, IN '82 OR '83, VISITING
 MY HALF-SISTER/HIS DAUGHTER, 
MARTHA,

A WORKER IN HAWAII.

GIVEN THIS PHOTO OF DAD IN HAWAII YEARS AGO. 
IT ALWAYS MAKES ME SMILE. 
 I'M SURE HE WAS THRILLED TO BE THERE.
AND SO APPRECIATE THAT MARTHA INVITED HIM 
AND PAID EVERYTHING FOR HIM.
DAD HAD VERY LITTLE MONEY, EVER.

DAD DIED MAY 22, 1984, 65 YEARS OLD,

FROM LUNG/BRAIN CANCER.

THIS WAS THE VERSE USED AT HIS FUNERAL.

IT TRULY WAS DESCRIPTIVE OF HIM.

 THE LORD HAD ENTERED HIS LIFE A FEW YEARS EARLIER -- DAD CALLED FROM TACOMA WHERE HE LIVED TO MY PLACE IN OMAHA ON A SUNDAY AFTERNOON IN THE SPRING OF APRIL, '79, TO TELL ME AND THEN SENT ME A WONDERFUL LETTER -- AND I WAS BLESSED TO KNOW HE HAD TRULY TURNED TO THE LORD. 

 [AS MANY OF YOU KNOW FROM MY STORIES, HE WAS VERY TOUGH, VERY ROUGH MOST OF THE TIME. -- AND HE WAS RAISED EXCEEDINGLY ROUGH, TOO.  WELL, NOW I'M EXCITED, BECAUSE I WILL SEE HIM IN HEAVEN, AND WE WILL BE FOREVER-FRIENDS. SOMETIMES I THINK I CAN HARDLY WAIT!]

 [AND, I'M GOING TO SHARE A FEW OTHER PIECES ABOUT DAD VERY SOON.  WORKING ON IT NOW!  SHARING THIS FIRST, THOUGH.]